Today we took Rita and Bob Winland out to lunch for their Second Wind Dream. They chose Cracker Barrel. They both live with us here at Elmcroft but have not been out to lunch together in a very long time. They have been married for 69 years and both say they would do it all over again. Rita said that Bob was the best husband ever. When we asked them what made it work for so many years? They both told us that you have to give and take. They used to go to the movies when they were courting in Lewisville, Ohio.They shared a smooch and just held hands. Sometimes just holding hands is all that has to be said.